Bike for Brain Health, Canada’s largest one-day cycling event, is coming soon. They have a choice of 30 km, 60 km, 90 km distances. I am already trained to do the 90 km including the 60 km to go and come back from the event at the proper time. So I thought I could read a book about brain health. Many people have poor brain health, so I thought it would help to know more from a psychologist’s perspective.
Randy Paterson listened to many people explaining how their life is miserable. Most depressions used to start around age 30 but it seems that they now appear in the early 20s. He lists at least 40 ways people think in order to get there. I’ll go over some of those strategies. The book is written to be a bit funny although when someone is down that rabbit hole, it is not funny at all. I won’t choose those very relevant insights I learned about others but just focus on some ideas that I can give personal feedback on.
Self-confidence is crucial (That’s lesson 17). People stay in their zone of comfort. It’s a jail cell. In order to try something new, you have to know you can do it. Well, when I re-started cycling, I bicycled indoors for 3 months before I could no longer stay indoors. I went to the lake (8 km) on my son’s mountain bike and it felt like going out of jail. It was just wonderful. I continued to do more and more and now, 150 km is a piece of cake and none of my muscles are hurting as a result. I would like to attempt longer distances. I can do it, no problem, even if I end up staying within the GTA.
Keep Your Tool Kit Empty (Lesson 21) Some people think we are powerless with many of the challenges that life will toss our way. I was asked if I wanted to go rock climbing. It is not in my current comfort zone, but I can envision how I can do this. I jumped out of a plane in a parachute before so it should be fine. I just need to strengthen my arms with weights, or swimming. I know where I can use free weights outdoors. I could use them if I am bored with my own home weights. My point, whether I will do it or not is that I do have the self-confidence and the tools to attempt it. I do not need to feel bad about it. I can do it. Some people choose to stay within their comfort zone and will at some point, feel bad or depressed or stressed about their decision. Rock climbing is not in my “To Don’t” list. Sometimes though I wonder if cycling for brain health, for cardio health or health in general is on people’s TO DON’T list.
Narrow Your Experience (Lesson 25)
I laugh quite a lot with this lesson. “If your only exposure is to the arctic, it’s hard to imagine life in the tropics. … When, later on, you are exposed to alternatives, these can seem nonsensical, counterintuitive, or even immoral.” It is no secret that I bicycle in winter. It is no big deal. As with a car, you need winter tires and winter clothing with good gloves and boots but otherwise it is really no problem at all. The trails/roads are maintained to make it easy. I had never bicycled in winter until adulthood. When I bicycled and there were snowflakes around me, I was quite surprised but I knew it was possible because my mother told me every year while growing up that my uncle bicycled in winter. Media coverage mentions cycling in winter as miserable but people who see me cycling in winter see that I cycle with a big smile. “Perceptions of alternative cultures or ways of living can be unduly influenced by the distortions of media coverage”
Go with the Flow (Lesson 31)
Go “With no skills, no plans, no career, no accomplishments, no progress? Congratulations – that’s misery”. That’s the biggest challenge I have right now. Finding my next goal, so that I am able to keep and improve my fitness. I used to have several goals, but right now it always feels like I have to lift myself with my boot straps in order to bicycle. If I do not bicycle, I feel bad, so I go, but it is not the best type of motivation. Currently thinking about my next goal.
Let the Money Worry About Itself (Lesson 36)
“Few strategies are more effective at promoting misery than debt and overspending”. An entry level bicycle is not that expensive: $500. I bought one and used it for years, all seasons. I pedaled thousands of kilometers with it while going over the GTA. If you would like to bicycle with me, I have an extra bicycle for you. Again, not that expensive. If you like expensive bicycles, I can find a nice one for you at an unlimited price.
Take your body for granted (Lesson 37)
“Your body is you. Neglect it and you neglect yourself”. We need to sleep regularly, about 8 hours a day, at a regular time. We need to eat healthy food. We need to exercise. I can tell you that exercise does wonders for mental health. It keeps you in excellent spirits. Cardiovascular exercise like cycling does wonders for your health. At 64, I do not have to take a single pill and my cardiovascular health is more or less like one of a 20 year old. Age will eventually catch up with me but not yet. I know my muscles are stronger now that I was at 25.
Focus of What You Lack (Lesson 38)
“Our mood depends most on where we place our attention. If we focus on what we have, you may experience a sense of gratitude and abundance. If you focus on what you lack, precisely the same life will seem pathetic and poverty-stricken.”
I am thankful and grateful for what I have. When I bicycle, I do not compete against others, I only aim at improving my own path. I have bicycled mostly on my own, looking at nature. I still enjoy that a lot. I welcome those who would like to join me.
How to be miserable in your twenties is an interesting read. If you feel in a rut, it might just point out what you need to focus on.







